Nabi Muhammad kita pesan, 3tanggungjawab ayah terhadap anaknya.
mungkin dah tau, tapi lupa. jom reflects!
1) memberi nama yang baik.
-hakikat sekarang yang bg nama anak2, nenek la. mak la.
pastu mula la bg nama pelik2. gabungan itu ini. last2 takde makna.
nama ni penting sebab kat akhirat nanti kita akan dipanggil oleh Allah dgn nama panggilan kita sekarang.
so elok nama simple, & makna yg baik.
2) memberi didikan agama selepas dia baligh
-so kalau anak2 tu takde ilmu pasal agama, ayah yg akan dipertggjawabkn.
tapi cmne nk ajar anak kalau kita sdri takde ilmu kn? tak cukup dgn hantar anak pergi sekolah agama je,
anak akan observe & ikot ape yg kita buat.
bukan senang nak jadi parent yang baik taw :-S
3)carikan pasangan yang baik utk anak.
-jangan pilih yg cantik/hensem/kaya je ye? ilmu & amal yg paling penting :)
pesanan khidmat masyarakat utk ayah & bakal2 ayah diluar sana.
.sebaik2 perkataan adalah perkataan yang mendekatkan kita pada Dia.
You know your islam is in TROUBLE when...
...the last thing you learnt about Islam, the Quran, or Jihad was from CNN,Aljazeera
...all your conversations with your friends have to do with guys/girls, or movies, or guys/girls in movies
...all your conversations with your friends have to do with guys/girls, or movies, or guys/girls in movies
...you spend more nights at mamak stall during Ramadan than at a Masjid
...you can't remember the last time you asked someone a question about something you didn't understand in Islam
...you find time to watch three movies a week but find yourself too busy to pray Salah regularly
...that Quran translation you were given last 'Eid is still sitting on the top shelf of your bookrack
...the 'inner voice' you hear when you are in complete silence sounds surprisingly similar to the latest hip-hop song you heard
...the feeling that Allah SWT is watching you in all that you do is never more than a passing thought
...you are available to receive phone calls at 2 a.m.
...knowing something is right or wrong and feeling guilty about it does not effect whether you actually do it or not
...you gave hope of ever entering Paradise because you don't feel you deserve it after 'all that I have done
...you can't figure out why you are never truly happy deep in your heart and why nothing good in your life ever seems to last (why does it always have to end?)
...the happiest day of your life so far was on a Christmas, Valentine, or a dance
...you are loneliest when you are sad or when something bad has happened to you (where did all my friends go?)
...you don't think of the Prophet at least once a day
...when you hear of Muslims dying somewhere in the world, you consider it part of 'politics' which you have nothing to do with
...your 'best friend' is a person of the opposite gender yet not your husband or wife
...you have no motivation to change things in your life
...when your faults are pointed out to you, you reply "This is who I am, for better or for worse!"
...listening to the Quran does not make you feel guilty
...you are actually flattered when people on the street stare or ask you out
...you friends never object to any of your bad habits or behaviours and vice versa
...you don't care whether you go to heaven or hell since no one can really be sure about these things
...to you, Islam is just another 'organized institutionalized religion'
...you generally feel crappy and often find yourself telling people that you consider and justify your sins as 'a part of who I am'
...you want to travel around the world someday but Makkah is not one of your planned stops
...your parents hate you and have said so to you
...you read the horoscopes yet have never performed Salat-ul-Istikharah
...you have never felt like falling down on your face and crying to Allah
...you look down upon people who are more practicing than yourself as 'just mullahs and ustaz'
...your past bad experiences with some Muslims prevent you from getting closer to Islam and other Muslims
this really touches my heart :'( Do you have one of these thing? Let's cure it people.
jangan amik ringan benda yg berat
solat bukan rutin!
solat tu paling penting
amalan pertama yg akan dihisab
masa berharga untuk kita jumpa & mengadu kat DIA.
kena selalu baiki solat. sebab fitrah kita. LUPA.
jom kita listkan ape yg kita nk baiki dalam solat kita? jom?
azan bukan "misscall". tapi panggilan Allah utk kita abdikan diri pada DIA,
utk kita same2 menuju kejayaan. sungguh besar maksud azan.
kat sini mmg tak dengar azan langsung T.T. sedey.
pasang kat laptop je termampu.
"kalau sempurna solat seseorang itu, maka sempurna lah kehidupannya"
jom strive solat yg sempurna!
:)
solat tu paling penting
amalan pertama yg akan dihisab
masa berharga untuk kita jumpa & mengadu kat DIA.
kena selalu baiki solat. sebab fitrah kita. LUPA.
jom kita listkan ape yg kita nk baiki dalam solat kita? jom?
azan bukan "misscall". tapi panggilan Allah utk kita abdikan diri pada DIA,
utk kita same2 menuju kejayaan. sungguh besar maksud azan.
kat sini mmg tak dengar azan langsung T.T. sedey.
pasang kat laptop je termampu.
"kalau sempurna solat seseorang itu, maka sempurna lah kehidupannya"
jom strive solat yg sempurna!
:)
hati-hati
hati-hati dengan hati :-/
"Sesungguhnya beruntunglah orang yang mensucikan jiwa itu, (9) dan sesungguhnya rugilah orang yang mengotorinya. (10) " (Surah Asy-Syams: 9-10)
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