ape kau cakap?

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Pernah dengar kisah ni?

kisah ni sgt bermanfaat utk jadikan pengajaran..

Boleh pandang kisah ni dari banyak sudut yg berbeza..
dari aspek pasangan suami isteri tu (org yg dicemuh) & juga dari pandangan org2 ramai yg sangat pandai mengkritik org tu..

Apa2 pun, jangan hanya nampak salah org.. Pandang cermin, tengok diri sendiri dulu.. 
Adakah aku ni perfect tanpa sebarang cela?
Kalau YA, baru boleh nak kritik org sana-sini, sebab diri sendiri dah takde salah :-D
tapi... jangan pulak merelakan org sekeliling kita buat maksiat terang2 tapi taknak tegur sebab diri sendiri pon still banyak buat salah.. NO.. that's not how it works.
nak tegur kesalahan sahabat, lain dengan mengutuk/mengkritik apa dia buat..
tegur itu perlu berhemah & penuh kasih sayang kerana Allah ! :)

Orang yg tak bersependapat dgn kita, tak semestinya dia salah, kita betul..
Look at life from many different perspectives. Please.

May Allah SWT give us perspective & understanding.

When you’re hurt by people who share the same blood as you, then just remember Yusuf (AS), who was betrayed by his own brothers.

If you find your parents opposing you, remember Ibrahim (AS), whose father led him to the fire.

If you’re stuck with a problem where there’s no way out, remember Yunus (AS), stuck in the belly of a whale.

If you’re ill & your body cries with pain, remember Ayoob (AS) who was more ill than you.

When someone slanders you, remember Ai’sha (RA) who was slandered throughout the city.

When you’re lonely, recall Aadam (AS) who was created alone.

When you can’t see any logic around you, think of Nuh (AS) who built an ark without questioning.

If you are mocked by your own relatives then think of Prophet Muhammad (SAW).

Allah (SWT) put these Prophets to trial, so that later generations may learn a lesson of patience & perseverance.

istiqamah: mudah di bibir, susah nak buat.

HEBATNYA DIRIMU KERANA HEBATNYA HUBUNGANMU DGN ALLAH...


“Sewaktu saat-saat akhir serangan atas Konstantinople, Sultan Muhammad Al-Fateh bertanya: Siapa di kalanganmu yang tidak pernah meninggalkan solat jemaah? Tentera-tenteranya senyap.Beliau berkata: Aku tidak pernah meninggalkan solat jemaah sejak aku mula mengenali solat ketika umurku 7 tahun”. 
(Sultan Muhammad Al-Fateh)

Allah, Who created your heart, can most definitely heal it.

"How is your heart with Allah today?"

Often what makes us fall into despair is focusing on the wrong things. 
For example, if we’ve sinned, we focus on the sin, rather than the Most Merciful. 
If we’re broken, we focus on the break instead of Al Jabbar, the One who mends. 
If we are in pain, we focus on the pain itself, instead of on the One who removes all pain. 
If we are wounded, we focus on the wound instead of on the One who heals all wounds. 
If we’re scared, we focus on the fear, instead of the Protector. 
And if we’re facing a problem, we see the problem, but not the One who can solve it. 
We see the lion, but not the lion tamer. 
We see the imperfections of dunya, but not the perfection of Allah. 
We see the immediate, but not the Tomorrow, the tree, but not the fruit, 
the thorn, but not the rose. All our pain, all our despair, all our hopelessness, stems from looking at the creation, instead of the Creator. 


Ask yourself: what is your heart looking at?

-my fav quote from Yasmin Mogahed.