Words for teenagers

Reading through some articles the other day, I came across a story about a judge from America who regularly deals with youth. His statement quoted in the paper was so profound.

He said,

“Always we hear the cry from teenagers, ‘what can we do, where can we go?’.

My answer is this: 

Go home, mow the lawn, wash the windows, learn to cook, build a raft, get a job, visit the sick, study your lessons and after you’ve finished, read a book.

Your town does not owe you recreational facilities and your parents do not owe you fun. 

The world does not owe you a living, you owe the world something. 

You owe it your time, energy & talent so that no one will be at war, in sickness and lonely again.

In other words, grow up, stop being a cry baby, get out of your 

own dream world and develop a backbone not a wishbone. 

Start behaving like a responsible person. You are important and you are needed. It’s too late to sit around and wait for somebody to do something someday. Someday is now and that somebody is you!”

Jangan pernah rasa memiliki...

"Semakin rasa memiliki, semakin susah utk sabar... tapi bila yakin semuanya hanyalah titipan-Nya, nescaya akan lebih mudah sabar"

from Kak Ana :)

Diriwayatkan oleh at-Tarmidzi dalam kitab ar-Radaa’, Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w,
“Setiapkali seorang wanita menyakiti suaminya di dunia ini, pasti isteri suaminya itu yang di kalangan bidadari syurga akan berkata : 
“Janganlah engkau menyakitinya, semoga Allah membunuhmu. Dia hanya titipan buat dir

imu, sebentar lagi dia akan meninggalkanmu dan menemui kami”

Bersikap cemburu sehebat mungkin untuk kebaikan yang satu ini. Cemburulah mendengar bahawa akan ada wanita yang disebut huurun ‘ain, bidadari syurga nanti yang akan menanti kehadiran suami. Jadilah bidadari bagi suamimu sebelum ada yang merampasnya daripada kalian!

islam itu ketenangan..

banyak duit bahagia?
kaya, cantik, ada rumah besar-besar... kereta mewah.. bahagia sangat ke?
sekejap, mungkin... tapi mesti akan rasa ada something 'missing' jugak kalau dalam hati itu Allah tak kurniakan ketenangan abadi.

solat yang tenang, asas kepada hati yang tenang..
hubungan yang tenang dengan Dia, membuah kan hubungan yang tenang sesama insan lain.

Betul, saya dah cuba.
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Semoga Allah kurniakan hati yang tenang buat kita semua~ Amin..

ape kau cakap?

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Pernah dengar kisah ni?

kisah ni sgt bermanfaat utk jadikan pengajaran..

Boleh pandang kisah ni dari banyak sudut yg berbeza..
dari aspek pasangan suami isteri tu (org yg dicemuh) & juga dari pandangan org2 ramai yg sangat pandai mengkritik org tu..

Apa2 pun, jangan hanya nampak salah org.. Pandang cermin, tengok diri sendiri dulu.. 
Adakah aku ni perfect tanpa sebarang cela?
Kalau YA, baru boleh nak kritik org sana-sini, sebab diri sendiri dah takde salah :-D
tapi... jangan pulak merelakan org sekeliling kita buat maksiat terang2 tapi taknak tegur sebab diri sendiri pon still banyak buat salah.. NO.. that's not how it works.
nak tegur kesalahan sahabat, lain dengan mengutuk/mengkritik apa dia buat..
tegur itu perlu berhemah & penuh kasih sayang kerana Allah ! :)

Orang yg tak bersependapat dgn kita, tak semestinya dia salah, kita betul..
Look at life from many different perspectives. Please.

May Allah SWT give us perspective & understanding.

When you’re hurt by people who share the same blood as you, then just remember Yusuf (AS), who was betrayed by his own brothers.

If you find your parents opposing you, remember Ibrahim (AS), whose father led him to the fire.

If you’re stuck with a problem where there’s no way out, remember Yunus (AS), stuck in the belly of a whale.

If you’re ill & your body cries with pain, remember Ayoob (AS) who was more ill than you.

When someone slanders you, remember Ai’sha (RA) who was slandered throughout the city.

When you’re lonely, recall Aadam (AS) who was created alone.

When you can’t see any logic around you, think of Nuh (AS) who built an ark without questioning.

If you are mocked by your own relatives then think of Prophet Muhammad (SAW).

Allah (SWT) put these Prophets to trial, so that later generations may learn a lesson of patience & perseverance.